We got there and she began to argue with i the staff i dont know if they were doctors nurses , probably both. She got them to bring Stef to us while they "talked" . She basically told them look we have court in a few days. How can we tell a judge that they are bonded to her or understand all that she requires as far as care when they have only met her once for 10 minutes. They ended up agreeing to us having one one hour visit per day, supervised by a nurse. And heck that was better than nothing.
Our visits were in a tiny office in the hospital so the nurse supervising us was only a couple feet away from us which was kinda awkward but what can you do? They made us wear these cape type drapes, booties over our shoes, and face masks every visit. i suspect that Stef was being sedated because she could never stay awake more than 10-15 minutes of our visits so i would sing her lullabies and rock her and josh and i would take turns holding her. She was doing a bit of stimming during these visits. She would hit herself in the face and would chew on her hand until it was red and raw. She didn't do it much when we were there, probably because she was interested by us and because she slept alot. i suspect she did it more when we weren't around. Our court date was set for march 22nd.